Em evaluates compatibility across three layers — how you are, what you value, and how you live — so you can build what lasts.
Your natural tendencies — how you think, feel, and respond to the world.
Your core values and what you're ultimately trying to build.
The everyday systems that shape a shared life — at home, with family, with money, and in the future.
Who you are now, not who you were.
What matters most: duty, ethics, meaning.
Availability for a new relationship and capacity to trust.
Daily rhythms, habits, health and home environment.
How you express, listen and handle difficult talks.
How disagreements are managed and resolved.
Household, financial and caregiving expectations.
Where and how you want to live your next chapter.
These are a few of the dimensions we measure. Em matches across almost double this — the rest, you'll discover inside.
A clear picture of who you are across all three layers — before you're matched with anyone.
How you and your match align — dimension by dimension, in plain language.
What's aligned, what to prioritise, and what to talk about early — so you build with clarity.
Not a promise of the perfect person. A promise you'll know what you're choosing.
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